Surround Effect

With what is your child living or surrounded with?

The human brain is an incredibly dynamic organ of our system that responds to our surroundings, mental patterns and habits.

• If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. 
• If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight. 
• If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive. 
• If a child lives with pity, he learns to feel sorry for himself. 
• If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
• If a child lives with jealousy, he learns what envy is. 
• If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty. 
• If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident. 
• If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient. 
• If a child lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative. 
• If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love. 
• If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
• If a child lives with recognition, he learns that it is good to have a goal. 
• If a child lives with sharing, he learns about generosity. 
• If a child lives with honesty and fairness, he learns what truth and justice are. 
• If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and in those about him. 
• If a child lives with friendliness, he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live. 
• If you live with serenity, your child will live with peace of mind.

Above all, most importantly, 

if you and your family practice religious principles,

then

You will learn all good things and stay away from bad things in life. 

Your association matters hence stay within a good circle of devotees and friends to have a profound effect on your quality of daily living.

The studies have found that people who expressed that spirituality or religion was important to them in their daily living had significantly thicker cerebral cortices—a part of the brain rich in highly active neural networks responsible for sensory perception, language and emotion processing—than those who did not.

What is not surprising is that these factors also apply to adults. Spouses, and other adults within teams and organizations. While you are looking out for your children you may also want to watch out and care for your partner and others with whom you have to interact.